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It dawned on me this morning that the weekly Finn's gathering is what became of my idea for family dinner. Since those never really materialized, I started doing this instead. And even to this, turnout is rarely what I'd hoped it would be. It seems kinda pointless half the time.

Date: 2004-04-02 05:44 pm (UTC)
From: [identity profile] gfish.livejournal.com
I'd be a lot more interested in doing dinner than a bar. Cheaper, less public, less likely to damage my eardrums, fewer drunk fratboys.

Date: 2004-04-02 05:59 pm (UTC)
From: [identity profile] jadine.livejournal.com
I'm not into bars, but I'd come to dinner if you had it on a Saturday or Sunday. (The whole "work until 9pm" thing constrains my schedule M-F.)

Date: 2004-04-02 06:34 pm (UTC)
From: [identity profile] planxi-mihi.livejournal.com
we're not big fans of the bar idea, either...dinner would definitely appeal more!

Date: 2004-04-02 06:53 pm (UTC)
From: [identity profile] tommusic.livejournal.com
I get dinner AT the bar!

Somewhere else might be worth trying as well, but I can't very well recommend what. Well, I suppose I can. Red Robin. Or maybe Jalisco.

Date: 2004-04-02 09:07 pm (UTC)
From: [identity profile] walbourn.livejournal.com
I'd have come, but there was a birthday-dinner that I needed to attend tonight.

Date: 2004-04-03 12:23 am (UTC)
From: [identity profile] corivax.livejournal.com
Like many others, aparently, I'm also more interested in food than in a painfully loud bar.

Date: 2004-04-03 08:32 am (UTC)
From: [identity profile] bostonsteamer.livejournal.com
Dinner or bar, Saturdays would work better for me as well.

Date: 2004-04-03 02:06 pm (UTC)
From: [identity profile] vixyish.livejournal.com
Don't like bars, don't like loud places, don't like *smoky* places. Don't like huge crowds of drunken idiots (well, not ones I don't know, anyway.)

Date: 2004-04-05 03:13 pm (UTC)
From: [identity profile] plantae.livejournal.com
Well, it's loud, smoky, reeks of alcohol, and requires money to participate. :) Each of those are frequently considered drawbacks, though which is more problematic varies by individual. Not sure what the solution is, short of hosting meals at a house. (Which has other drawbacks, including cooking and cleaning). I'd recommend deciding who your core group is, which people you *really* want to have participate, and figuring out what works for them. And possibly switching to a bi-monthly or monthly thing rather than weekly. :)

Good luck.

Date: 2004-04-05 08:28 pm (UTC)
From: [identity profile] adularia.livejournal.com
I like the weekly aspect of it. It's something else to look forward to at the end of a long week.

The bar isn't my favorite place either, although I don't seem to mind... someone's house (not mine, as it's quite small) would be good.